Best Ways to Save a Failing Marriage
It is very difficult to find a perfect marriage for one major reason no two people are the same. It is very difficult to be similar to your husband because we are all created differently. A successful marriage hinges on how a couple can manage these differences. Marriage is about how much you can compromise with each others excesses. Your likes are most likely not similar to your husband’s. What you hold dear, may mean so little to your partner. There lies the problem.
A marriage has a golden period. A golden period is when you can not stay without each other. It is period when parties in a relationship easily compromise to accommodate each other. It is during this period that a couple usually bring on earth a new being. This bundle of joy for the couple unfortunately more often than not marks the beginning of deterioration of most marriages. This child often leads to all romance and fun getting out of the way. This child often leads to foul treatment and anxiety in the home. It leads to the beginning of the marriage falling apart.
Marriages also fail for so many other reasons including but not limited to money issues, infidelity, lack of mutual respect to mention but a few.
What do you then need to do when your marriage is going down the drain?
Find something that you two people like or the other partner enjoys and try as much possible to find time to do it together however difficult it may be. This ignites a bit of caring between you people as a couple and brings back those golden days you used to enjoy.
Go for therapy and counseling together. Do not go alone, your partner needs to know that all is not well and if she or he continues on the wrong path disaster will definitely result. You will be surprised to know that your partner may not have realized the effect of his or her behavior on the relationship. He may actually think that all is o.k and you are happy to leave with the situation. Going to therapy together exposes your partner to the problems and gets him thinking. It may not be a solution in the long run but it gives you time work out things.
Get a traditional healer to help. Traditional healers have spiritual and herbal powers that calm down the offending partner. Believe me they do. A traditional healer can send calming spirits to the offending partner who ends up being more friendly and like-able. This partner starts enjoying the relationship once again. It saves the marriage and that is what keeps marriages going in Africa despite the challenges of dire poverty in most homes.
Many people who have sought out help get it. Your search has come to an end if you truly need a change in your love life. Do you really need to save your marriage? Are you sure?
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